Inspired from Zan Monroe and The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
Following the Florida Association of Realtor’s conference I attended in August, my motivation has been increased significantly. It is very exciting to wake up every morning looking forward to what the day has to bring, finding a balance that up until these past couple of months knew was possible, and quite honestly seeing the world in a whole new light. There were some incredible speakers but the one that stood out the most to me was Zan Monroe. Zan’s book called Stories of Uncle Adrian - A Guide to Mastery in Your Life says it all - so read it!
My co-worker also did a workshop in August on the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People that she is teaching to us in the office. It’s all very simple, but very powerful when you apply it to you life. And it is incredible how the two tie together.
I am currently working on my Life Plan following the guide laid out in Zan Monroe’s book, Stories of Uncle Adrian. It is not something you can do in a day, it takes a while for the concept to marinate in your brain, for you to see situations throughout your day, evaluate relationships in your life and then you can really see the bigger picture of what it is you want in your life, to analyze each area of your life, and to strive for self-mastery.
This is a very daunting topic for most people, and so we do not face the challenge of putting a plan together. And isn’t the famous saying “The best made plans of mice and men often go awry.” Sure, but you could get in a car accident on your way to work but it doesn’t stop you from going to work does it? And in my humble opinion, when you establish a plan, feel organized and calm you anticipate speed bumps, detours or road blocks, and your plan makes you more capable of coping with them. Or you could choose to float through life, without any sort of plan, just reacting to what happens around you. The concept of the Life Plan that Zan Monroe talks about is exactly what the first habit of highly effective people is - Be Proactive! I don’t think that its a coincidence that Zan Monroe is a highly effective person, do you?
If you have no clue what your life plan is and think I am nuts for blogging about this - think about one of these 2 things:
- What type of people would you like to have surrounding you on your 80th birthday and what would they say about you?
- or a more morbid but still effective thought, What would you like your eulogy to read?
Go ahead, write it down. This will start to give you an idea of what your life plan should be because you can’t just sit around and do nothing and expect people to say wonderful things about you when your 80 or dead, right? You cant expect to change the world in a year without laying the foundation work required to get there. Ah, yes, and here we are back at seven habits of highly effective people and guess what Habit Two is? Begin with the End in Mind. So begin with the end in mind and figure out how it is you are going to get there.
Take some time, think about what it is you want to accomplish in your life. Everyone has a unique gift and talent. I have no deadline on my life plan but I have a feeling it will come together somewhere just in time for the arrival of 2012 and the beginning of a new year.
We only have one go round, so why not fulfill all of your dreams? Who’s stopping you?